Not loyal to any party. Loyal to truth—and the people.

We've become so divided. Ready to change it? Start with your next conversation.

Ask The Conversation Coach

Most of us were never taught how to talk about politics, especially when we don’t agree. Ask The Conversation Coach™ is a free GPT I created to help you navigate your real, live, political conversations as they happen. If you’re in a dialogue that’s going off the rails, just copy and paste the conversation into the tool and learn about the conversation.

You’ll get a breakdown of how clearly and respectfully each person is communicating, along with:

• A CONTACT Score™ for both people

• Insight into what each side isn’t hearing

• Critical feedback on what could make the conversation more productive

If you’ve ever wished for a neutral third-party to referee your political conversations—this is it.

And the best part? You can copy and paste (or screenshot) the full result and share it with the other person. It breaks the tension and opens the door for a more honest, connected conversation—because chances are, both of you have something to work on.

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“I just tried this handy tool and holy wow, very neat! I loved reading the scores for myself and the other person's as well. Btw, your CONTACT Score system is excellent. I love how it brings a neutral 3rd party to the convo to dissect it. And yes, it would require the other person to be open to viewing their results but common, how can anyone deny such clear data!! I look forward to using this tool some more... not just for political discussions.”

Gemini Ferri, Love Coach For Women


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“Honestly, I was skeptical at first. But this thing doesn’t just spit out neutral takes — it actually gets the emotional dynamics of tough conversations. It even called out how I was unintentionally being condescending while thinking I was being reasonable. Incredibly eye-opening.”

Alex R., podcast host



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“The CONTACT Score system is brilliant. It breaks down conversations in a way that helps me see what’s working and what’s not — without shaming either side. I’ve used it to prep for family discussions and even to reflect after arguments. It’s like having a political therapist in your pocket.”

Priya S., community organizer

Hi - I'm Jennifer!

Was I always political? Not always—but for a long time now, yes.

I’m an entrepreneur. A tech nerd. A marketing consultant. And before all that, I built a career as an interiors photographer—published in magazines like Architectural Digest and Vogue. But as I worked, I knew I was meant to help with a BIG problem. I spent years trying to explore what it was, and now I get why I obsessed on this topic for so long. I like to say—I got drafted into the political arena. I saw where things were heading, and I knew I couldn’t stay on the sidelines waiting.

If we—the people—can’t talk about what’s happening, we can’t work together to fix it.

And it’s absolutely imperative that we do. That’s why I’m passionate about helping YOU communicate clearly, respectfully, and in a way that people can actually hear. So we can start working TOGETHER on the bigger issues.

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If you're curious about how we got here—or how we get out of this mess—I've written a few pieces that go deeper into the bigger picture.

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Change doesn’t start with Congress—it starts in conversation.

But we will need Congress to help us make the kinds of changes that truly represent the people.

That’s why I work with United Independents—the backbone organization of the independent movement, working with all independent parties to build real momentum for change. We’re building a congressional campaign to put everyday Americans (not corporate puppets) into office.

If you want to help change the makeup of Congress—or even run yourself—this is where it starts.

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